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Dangerous Stuff!The Unsafe Position of an Apologist Part 1
I love apologetics. Apologetics is the branch of Christian theology that deals with the defence and establishment of the Christian faith. An apologist uses logic, evidence, scripture, and wisdom when dealing with opposition, challenges and questions.
But there are serious dangers when it comes to apologetics. An apologist can come across as being arrogant, the dreaded ‘know it all’ in house groups or on the internet. And trust me! It is not hard to actually fall into that trap. After all, an apologist loves to gain knowledge in a multitude of subjects like biblical theology, logical fallacies, Scripture itself, cults, philosophy, false religions, and so on and so forth. So yes, many apologists will have to bite their tongue of when they hear strange and unbiblical ideas… But often they do not bite hard enough because they can’t resist correcting the surrounding people.
But there are more dangers lurking around the corner. I am going to do this video in two parts of each 5 dangers. This is part 1. Let’s take a look at these monsters, shall we?
#1 – Apologetics Before all
How much time do we spend just talking with the Lord? Are we reading the Bible because we want to get closer to God. Do we want to get to know Him better or are we mostly trying to gain more ammunition for our battles? In everything we do, we need to put Christ on the first place. He ought to be on our throne, not our books or our knowledge.
Psalm 46:10
Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.
Matthew 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
#2 – The Enemy Attitude
Are those critics and atheists on social media your enemy? Do we need to defeat them in every debate? Oh boy! Those nasty atheists. Sure enough, they are on their way to hell.
But hold on a minute. Isn’t that just the case? Aren’t those unbelievers lost? Shouldn’t we show compassion for their lost souls? God Himself looks at these people and is
2 Peter 3:9
[…] not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Jesus walked with his disciples through a town. He stopped, looked up into a tree, and spoke to a man who had climbed it to see Jesus as he passed by. The man was a notorious sinner, he was a hated tax collector. The type of guy who in greed had betrayed his own people.
Jesus didn’t start a fiery debate. Telling the man how stupid he was. No, instead He decided to have dinner at the man’s place, He together with His 12 disciples The man also invited all his tax collector friends. Not long after, the man, who we now know as Zacchaeus, believed in Jesus and was ready to repent of his sinful deeds. He gave everybody he had cheated on back their goods and even more.
All this without a harsh and argumentative attitude. Jesus was compassionate, and so should we.
#3 – Yearning for Victory
This one ties in with the one we just discussed. Are our discussions aimed at victory rather than seeing people be saved by Christ? Not many are brave enough to just stop a discussion. We are afraid that the other party announces victory. But why do we have this desire for victory over the conversion of souls? Why do we think it is more important to come out of the debate as the number one? Sometimes it is just better to stop and pray. Tell the other that it is not very likely that you come to the same conclusions, but that you love him or her nonetheless. I know, that sounds wimpy! But who cares? It is his or her soul you want to reach, right?
Proverbs 16:21
The wise in heart shall be called prudent: And the sweetness of the lips increaseth learning.
James 1:19
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath
#4 – The Not So Smart Brother Syndrome
Seeing fellow Christians as opponents when they don’t agree with you over secondary issues. It is very easy to withdraw in our bunker with like-minded brothers and sisters. That other brother is just not smart enough to understand your view on the theology around certain topics.
Years ago, I regularly had contact with a brother on the other side of the planet. He, too, loved apologetics. One day we had a nice online chat about evangelism. He actually though it to be wrong that some famous Christians used a lot of money on buildings like huge replicas of the Ark of Noah. I said that they at least try something to evoke the interest of people. I mean, doing nothing is very little right?
Anyway, as the chat continued I wanted to make my point clear by another example. I told him about a brother who went to the supermarket and bought some bottles of beer. Armed with these bottles he visited the homeless in our city. He sat down and offered them a beer while he started to share the Gospel. Now, I didn’t want to say that this was such a good idea to do! All I wanted to say was that this specific brother at least tried something to reach these people. He tried something while most other Christians in our town didn’t even come close to these people.
I pity the moment I mentioned this example. My online friend was very quick in condemning the approach. Not a word of understanding, not a shred of sympathy towards my attempt to explain a totally different issue. No, the word ‘beer’ didn’t leave his mind. That was the trigger word. Whether I agreed with the approach… I said that I used the example to explain that people sometimes make weird jumps in order to do something. Well, apparently I agreed with giving alcohol to homeless people. No, I said, better not! But, dumb as I could be, I said that drinking alcohol can be accepted in one culture and not in the other. Anyway, long story short. My online friend demanded my repentance. Repent of this wicked and sinful idea!! I said that there was nothing to repent for as I never agreed with the whole alcohol giving thing in the first place. Repent! Right now!
Later, I found our little chat in an article about using alcohol. My words were used to show all the God-fearing Christians that there are people who call themselves Christian but refuse to repent from such ideas. Apparently I was the typical ‘not so smart as the other’ guy.
I know, alcohol is a hot topic among many. So is the rapture, gifts of the Holy Spirit, women in church etc. But honestly, I don’t need you to agree with me on these matters. I have great friends, brothers and sisters who wholeheartedly disagree with me on some topics! But we love each-other dearly. Why? Because we know that Christ saved us. Jesus died for us on the cross, and He rose again on the third day. He is the Saviour of the world, and He brought us together as brothers and sisters.
Psalm 133:1
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is For brethren to dwell together in unity!
Our brother and sisters are not our opponents when they don’t agree with us over debatable issues!
#5 – The Elect
What do you do when the other brother doesn’t seem to be on the same page as you are. Right! You withdraw yourself from his company, and you try to find as many like-minded as possible! Then, when you found them, you can drink coffee after the service with them. You can have your own private Bible studies with them… Yes, you can even sit next to each-other every Sunday morning.
I don’t think I’ll have to explain that such isolation isn’t very smart, right? Just because we seem to know more about certain topics, doesn’t make us elite or superior to the other.
Romans 12:16
Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.
Outro
These are the first five dangers I came up with. I would like to name five more in part 2.
I would like to read your ideas about this topic. Let me know in the comments below. Remember! I am mostly active on my Odysee channel. You’ll find a link to that channel in the description of this video.
In the same description you’ll find ways to support me, and I’ll place a link to the transcript of this video. I always try to make the transcript available in Dutch and English.
If you want to start your own channel on Odysee you can use my invitation in the description, and we will both receive some free LBC!
As always, thank you for watching,
God bless you and we see each other in the next video!
The Unsafe Position of an Apologist Part 2
Apologetics is the branch of Christian theology that deals with the defence and establishment of the Christian faith. An apologist uses logic, evidence, scripture, and wisdom when dealing with opposition, challenges and questions. An apologist loves to gain knowledge in a multitude of subjects like biblical theology, logical fallacies, Scripture itself, cults, philosophy, false religions, and so on and so forth.
But how about a little humility, a loving heart, compassion for the lost? When I became I Christian somewhere in 1994, many were wearing these wristbands with the letter WWJD. What Would Jesus Do? I am not sure whether this is still cool to wear, but I do know that in some cases it is a good reminder. Jesus, the Son of God. He knew the Scriptures as no other. He knew what was in someone’s heart… Still, He was humble enough to wash the feet of His own students. Stinky, filthy feet… Are we prepared to lay aside our hard-earned knowledge and ‘lower’ ourselves in the hopes that the other might be saved?
But there are more dangers for the apologist to watch out for. This is part 2. Let’s take a look at these stinky feet, shall we?
#6 - The Arrogance that is Built on Knowledge and is not Matched with Humility
When I was still a schoolboy we had a little saying:
The more you learn, the more you know. The more you know, the more you forget. The more you forget, the less you know. So if learning means that you will know less, why should you learn anything than?
Back then I thought this to be awfully clever. What did I know as a nine-year-old! However, I think I was more or less on the right track. Let me rephrase this saying:
The more you learn, the more you know. The more you know, the more you discover there is more to learn. The more you discover there is more to learn, the more you know how little you know. So if learning means that you find out that you know very little, it means that a little humility is in order.
You see, I think I know quite a lot about my faith. Also, I have studied the Bible pretty deep, and I continue doing that. We have lived in a very remote village on Madagascar. There I found out even more things about the Christian way of living. Yes, it seems that I am pretty knowledgeable. But! When I go on the internet, when I talk with other people. Even with my own kids! I often find out that my knowledge isn’t infinite at all.
More often than not, I don’t even get to use that knowledge in my talks with the un-reached people. Doing my work as a missionary is, in my opinion, mostly about compassion. I need to humble myself when I go to that poor family who only lives of 75 Euro-cents per day. They don’t need a ‘know it all.’ They need someone who is humble enough to be with them, to listen to their stories, and to share the simplicity of the Gospel. It is humbling when they offer some food from the same plate as they are using.
Paul wanted to go to the Corinthians. Apparently they had some trouble with puffed up people. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 4:21
What will ye? Shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
He could have disciplined them with all his knowledge and lots of talk, but he preferred to go to them with meekness and love.
#7 – Rather Technical Accuracy Instead of Correcting with a Loving Heart
You go to the Bible study group, cell group, Sunday morning service, and you hear somebody talking about the Bible. The whole talk was pretty spot on… Except that one thing! Let’s say the person quoted one Bible verse out of context, or even worse, he cited a Bible verse, but he used the word ‘care’ instead of ‘love.’
Obviously you are going to correct this error! Forget about the whole message, let’s correct this person here and right now! Not being hindered by the idea the that brother or sister might have had a slip of the tongue, you step up as being the saviour of technical accuracy.
So, to help you, I’ll read a passage from Amplified Bible. Yes, I know many will have issues with this kind of translations and that exactly why I will quote it nonetheless! Deal with it! And try to get the message instead of focussing on the accuracy of the translation.
1 Thessalonians 2:7-8
But we [the apostles] behaved gently when we were among you, like a devoted mother tenderly caring for her own children. Having such a deep affection for you, we were delighted to share with you not only God’s good news but also our own lives, because you had become so very dear to us.
Do we have sincere affections for those around us? Are we willing to share our lives with them? Or do we rather jump into the conversation like a bull in a china shop?
#8 – Decisive and Condemnatory Attitude
Being critical isn’t a problem in itself.
1 Thessalonians 5:21
Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.
But being decisive for the sake of being just that… Well, it is kind of awkward isn’t it? Why would you go to a Bible-study group with an attitude of being critical all the time. Why sit down and listening to the preacher, while in the back of your mind you try to find any error in his message.
This is not what Paul had in mind! In the verses before verse 21, Paul says that we need to live a life of thanksgiving, a life filled with prayer. He said that we should listen to the Holy Spirit and that we should listen to those who receive prophecies. We should listen to their message and see whether is the word of God, and whether it applies to our own lives.
Condemning others isn’t difficult either. You just sit down in your save house, on your comfortable sofa, and watch what others are trying to do to build God’s kingdom. It is so easy to find error and to shove someone away as being heretical. No worries! As long as you stay seated in your lazy sofa, you won’t get mud on your shoes.
I see other missionaries come to Madagascar. The only speak English and French. That’s enough they say. Many Malagasy don’t even understand French, let alone English. But okay, I grant them that the Malagasy language is very hard to learn. Now, these missionaries go out to an area with a lot of high-tech material. They preach the Gospel, get translated, and see many answering to the good news of salvation. Then the leave again with enough to write about in their exiting newsletters.
I am not at all convinced that these methods work that well as they say in their newsletters. Preaching the Gospel and living with the people are hard work. It is about getting your feet dirty. But hey! I look at these other missionaries. I talk with them and many seem to have their hearts in the right place. Am I the appointed one who can condemn their work, their spending of money? Instead, I try to have personal talks with them. I share my experiences and I pray for them.
Listen to this story in Luke 9:49-50
And John answered and said, Master, we saw one casting out devils in thy name; and we forbad him, because he followeth not with us. And Jesus said unto him, Forbid him not: for he that is not against us is for us.
And then in line with this Paul says in Romans 14:4
Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand.
#9 – Causing Unnecessary Strife
I became a Christian somewhere in 1994. I went to a small church with maybe around 40 members. None of them felt equipped enough to lead Bible-studies. So instead, they invited two brothers from another town. It was not secret that these two had different opinions about the second coming of Christ. We either go through the tribulation or we are going to be raptured away before that time.
I always said that we will probably have to go through the 7 years before Christ is coming back. It is a bit like the Wager of Pascal. If I am right, I am prepared for the worst. If I am wrong… Well, happy day!!
These two brothers were very knowledgeable. I considered them to be the most smart people I knew back then. Still, they couldn’t resist pulling each other down on this issue. They never came together as they prepared different studies and sermons. But somewhere during their talks they just had to say something about the other, without actually calling the other’s name. No, but everybody knew to who the were referring.
It caused division in that, already small, group. It was a very unpleasant atmosphere to be in as a young Christian.
Proverbs 20:3
It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: But every fool will be meddling.
Strife can develop when a difference of opinion becomes the priority in a relationship. Strife is always accompanied by pride and an unteachable spirit in one or both parties.
#10 – Argumentative Lifestyle
I love teenagers! I do. I have three of them and the fourth one is starting to become one as well. But what are teenagers good at? Right, constantly arguing about every single rule you give them. It doesn’t really matter what the rule is about. As soon as the word ‘rule’ falls, they are right on top of it. And again, I love that phase. It is the time they learn to think for themselves. The time in which they are actually wrestling with all the lessons you’ve laid out before them. And you know what? Normally, this time will pass, and if you did your job well they will acknowledge it… One way or the other.
But, we, as adult apologists, are no teenagers any more right? They older we get, the more we understand that others might be right so now and then as well. Life is not about arguing all the time.
2 Timothy 2:14 (NIV)
Keep reminding God’s people of these things. Warn them before God against quarrelling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen.
And now listen to what Paul says two verses further in verse 16
Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly.
The Church of Christ needs more loving and considerate people. Whether we like it or not! We belong to each other, we are brothers and sisters…
Bonus!
Now that last Bible verse seems to call out just another issue! So, here a bonus for us all.
Until, now I mostly looked at these dangers with an emphasis on the Church right? But Paul says that we should “avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly.” And isn’t this just exactly what we can see around us? Some are so occupied with discussing, debating and learning, that they forget they need to be still so now and then as well.
I like to study. So much, that I quite often listen to atheistic chatter. I just want to know their arguments. And honestly, occasionally they seem to have a point. Yes, sometimes I listen to them and have a hard time to debunk their ideas. What do I do? Do I indulge myself in that chat with the risk of becoming more and more ungodly myself, or do I withdraw to seek the Lord?
Salomo knew what to do.
Proverbs 13:20
He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: But a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
Let’s be wise and surround ourselves with wise people who love the Lord God.
God urges you to surround yourselves with wise people and to
Ephesians 5:18b-21
[…] be filled with the Spirit; speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Outro
These were the dangers I came up with. If you didn’t see the first part I would suggest doing that as well. You’ll find the link in the description of this video. I am sure you can come up with even more dangers, I would like to read about them in the comments. Remember! I am mostly active on my Odysee channel. You’ll find a link to that channel in the description of this video.
In the same description you’ll find ways to support me, and I’ll place a link to the transcript of this video. I always try to make the transcript available in Dutch and English.
If you want to start your own channel on Odysee you can use my invitation in the description, and we will both receive some free LBC!
As always, thank you for watching,
God bless you and we see each other in the next video!
